Finding your best self in moving forward from a divorce or separation
Dorothy, in the movie “The Wonderful Wizard of Oz,” befriends three new companions on her journey to the Emerald City. To her dismay, she found that each new friend lacked the qualities needed to continue through the hardships and complete the excursion. Likewise, on this journey of divorce, and our quest to move forward through the pain, hurt, and grief; we must also embrace the deepest and best parts of ourselves. We need to find our courage, use our brains, and have a heart of compassion if we want to heal and transition well. As you know, on this painful expedition there is no Great Wizard who will make it all go away! However, you can choose to partner with a divorce coach, who can serve as a guide and companion through the pain and multiple changes you will experience. The process of separation and ultimately divorce is not for cowards or bullies. It is a solemn time when you want to be able to move through the dissolution of the marriage rising to be your BEST self. How do we heal a broken heart and begin again? The first step is to move past denial and accept our reality....